关于成长

 

                                                                                 人际----

                                                                                            想给自己找人际关系失败的借口 于是归结在别人的虚伪

                                                                                            其实虚伪是正常的人性 我要学会与这样的人相处而不是

                                                                                            逃避 我并不是要学会虚伪 而是希望可以辨别虚伪 并且

                                                                                            不被虚伪伤害

 

                                                                                 成长----

                                                                                            明白很多事情无法顺着自己的意思 但是要努力相信并

                                                                                            用恰当的方式让事情变成最后自己需要的

 

                                                                                 坚强----

                                                                                            如果最后事情实在无法实现 那么也能够接受下来 不会

                                                                                            失控而是冷静理智地去想下一步